Working mom outfit idea: Shades of grey

May
17

By Heidi IN More Fabulous Fridays, Personal Style

Image collage site Polyvore is a great tool for discovering your personal style–and finding outfit ideas. Today’s More Fabulous Friday features a look to try from Polyvore.

When you wear a lot of grey and black, the monochromatic look can sometimes feel a little dreary.

That’s why I like this variation on the theme; it breaks up the palette by adding a chambray shirt and a patterned scarf. Subtle, but effective.

You can recreate this outfit by adding a lighter colored piece to any grey and black outfit you already wear. Look for a patterned scarf or necklace in a coordinating shade for an extra bit of visual oomph.

Fab mamas: What colors do you like to wear with grey and black?

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Wedding guest outfit ideas (and one for bridesmaids, too)

May
16

By Heidi IN Try This Thursdays

Wedding guest outfit ideas: What to wear to a spring or summer wedding

All together now: here comes the bride …

Just in time for spring and summer wedding season, here’s a roundup of wedding guest outfit ideas–and even some advice on bridesmaid dresses, too.

Try this: Make sure your wedding guest dress is the right Level for the event: daytime weddings are typically a Level 4 (Client Meeting) and evening is more likely a Level 5 (Date Night).

Fab mamas: Have you been invited to any weddings this year? What are you planning to wear?

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Core Wardrobe outfit idea: How to wear a Little Black Dress

May
15

By Heidi IN Personal Style, Work It Wednesdays

Working mom Core Wardrobe outfit idea: How to wear a little black dress

Detail of Core Wardrobe item the little black dress: Shoulder beading

The Core Wardrobe is a list of essential pieces that form the building blocks from which you can create outfits for any occasion. Today’s outfit features one of the Core Wardrobe items, a Little Black Dress.

If there’s one item just about every list of “what you should have in your closet” has in common, it’s the Little Black Dress.

Attributed to Coco Chanel, the LBD has been popular almost from the moment of its inception and the reasons are clear: it’s versatile, functional, flattering and chic.

In a simple silhouette like a sheath, it can go from the office (with blazer and pumps) to cocktails (with pearls and heels).

I’ve even worn one of mine with denim and boots.

And I say “one of mine” because I have three: a day dress, a long-sleeved DVF for work and winter, and this one.

Because of the beaded shoulder detailing, I wouldn’t wear this dress to the office, but it’s great as a simple little cocktail dress. These pumps make it more daytime dressy, but at night I’d pair it with my metallic strappy sandals.

One more thing about the LBD: it doesn’t have to be black. The concept is to have a solid color dress in a chic silhouette that can take you from day to night if possible. Color-loving mamas could also opt for jewel tones, like a deep green or lipstick red. You’ll be the brightest star at the cocktail party!

Fab mamas: What’s your favorite LBD?

Shoes: Nine West (similar)
LBD: Calvin Klein (similar)
Working Mom Outfit Level: 5/Date Night

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The Core Wardrobe: Essential dresses for every occasion

May
14

By Heidi IN How-To Tuesdays, Personal Style, Style

The Core Wardrobe for dresses includes 3 types of dresses you can wear for any Working Mom Outfit Level, from weekends to Date Nights.

The Core Wardrobe: Dresses by franticbutfabulous

The Core Wardrobe is a list of the classic, fundamental clothes around which you can build outfits for any occasion. Each week in this series we’re exploring another clothing category. Today’s Core Wardrobe category: dresses.

The Core Wardrobe for dresses

As with the Core Wardrobe for skirts, the idea is to have the fewest number of dresses to suit the greatest number of occasions, across a range of Working Mom Levels. And as with skirts, neutral colors will be the most flexible and a knee-length cut the most flattering.

Day dress, such as a shirtwaist, wrap or sheath. A day dress is a versatile piece that can take you from weekend chic to client meeting and back. Pick the shape that works best for your body type. (For example, here’s how to pick a sheath for any body shape.)
Cotton summer sundress. On hot days, is there anything cooler? And it’s an easy way to dress for weekend casual or weekend chic. A maxi dress is a great option here, too.
Evening/cocktail dress, ideally a Little Black Dress (LBD). Wardrobe essentials don’t get more essential than the LBD. You’re automatically covered for every Level 5 event and Date Night you could ever hope to attend.

As with every category, this recommended list of basics is just that: recommendations. It starts with pieces that are the most universally wearable, but your personal style is the ultimate guide.

It’s also just a starting point. If you find (like I do) that dresses are the easiest one-step outfit there is, you might decide to make them the primary category in your wardrobe. Luckily for us, there are endless choices!

Fab mamas: What would you include on a list of basic dresses for every wardrobe?

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Try these quick fixes to make shoes fit (and feel) better

May
13

By Heidi IN Less Frantic Mondays

Have you ever bought a pair of shoes that felt fine when you tried them on in the store, but discovered that they weren’t quite comfortable–after you’d worn them and could no longer return them?

Don’t give up yet! Before you toss them in the giveaway pile, try these quick fixes to make uncomfortable or loose shoes fit and feel better:

Moleskin. If your shoes are rubbing against part of your foot, try easing the spot with moleskin, found in any drugstore. Moleskin is a soft felt-like material on one side, and super sticky tape on the other.
Heel inserts. If your heels are sliding up out of the back of your shoe, make the fit a little tighter with a heel grip. (These helped me keep a pair of pumps that seemed OK when I bought them, but started slipping off my foot once I really walked in them.)
Insoles. If your shoes aren’t comfortable to walk in after a few hours, try slip-in insoles with padding or arch supports. They can extend the wearability of many types of shoes.
Ball of foot pads. If you find that your feet slide forward with every step you take in a pair of heels, stop the slipping (and reduce the friction on the ball of your foot) with pads that stick on at the front of the shoe, like the TipToes cushions from Foot Petals (above).

Where to get them: You can find these products online or in any drugstore, and often in shoe stores, too (I’ve seen them at Payless and DSW).

Fab mamas: How do you keep your feet happy?

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Working mom outfit idea: Turn your shirt into a jacket

May
10

By Heidi IN More Fabulous Fridays, Personal Style

Shirt as a Jacket by fiftynotfrumpy

Image collage site Polyvore is a great tool for discovering your personal style–and finding outfit ideas. Today’s More Fabulous Friday features a look to try from Polyvore.

This weekend chic look is deceptively simple; it starts with a plain white T-shirt and khaki pants, two items almost every woman already has in her closet.

Adding an olive front-pocket shirt on top as a jacket with coordinating touches of orange takes this everyday outfit into a breezy look perfect for running errands or just running about.

You can recreate the look with your own white tee and khakis (keep them slim-fitting on top to avoid adding bulk to your midsection). Add a button-front shirt on top to act as a jacket, such as one in a dark color or denim, then brighten up with colorful accessories.

Fab mamas: What do you wear with your white T-shirt and khakis?

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Working mom outfit idea: Kid-friendly weekend chic

May
9

By Heidi IN Personal Style, Try This Thursdays

Relax by in-my-closet

A great source of outfit ideas is adapting stylish combinations others have already created. One way to do this is to break the source down into outfit components, like this.

This outfit might be weekend chic, but the components are all kid-friendly, from a long and loose skirt you can run around in (with a pattern to camouflage stains and spills), to toddler-chasing flat sandals and a big bag to stash diapers or emergency boo-boo kits.

Today’s working mom outfit inspiration pieces are

Long, loose knit skirt
Solid color tank top
Denim jacket
Flat sandals
Slouchy tote bag

[Outfit Level: 2/Weekend Chic]

Try this today: Like this look? Try recreating it with similar items from your own closet. Or search Pinterest or Polyvore for other outfits featuring patterned skirts and denim jackets.

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