Posts Tagged: shopping

Don’t let anyone tell you where you “should” shop

By IN Advice, Personal Style, Try This Thursdays

Sometimes it feels like fashion is high school all over again. Stylish people shop here, but not there. They wear this label, but they wouldn’t be caught dead in that one.

Try This Thursdays: A weekly series bringing you something new to try in your working mom style life.But personal style isn’t about where you bought it, it’s about how it looks on you. And that’s just as true whether you found it at Kirna Zabete or K-Mart.

Be true to yourself when you shop; forget the labels and wear it anyway.

  • Fab mamas: Do stores or labels matter when you shop?

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Last-minute holiday sales roundup (you’re welcome, procrastinators)

By IN Try This Thursdays

Are you one of those last-minute Santas? Still searching for the best deals?

Try This Thursdays: A weekly series bringing you something new to try in your working mom style life, like an item to wear or buy, a specific outfit combination to discover in your wardrobe, or even a thing to do.In addition to last week’s advice on how to find the best holiday deals online, here are a few more:

  • Kohl’s is giving an automatic 15% off on all orders for customers who pay with a Kohl’s charge card (ends 12/24; see kohls.com for details)
  • Macy’s has a Wrap It Up sale: use code WRAPIT on an order of $99 to get free shipping and an extra 10-15% off (ends 12/20; see macys.com for details)
  • Toys ‘R Us has a whole page of deals good through 12/22, including 25% off all Radio Flyer scooters and wagons
  • And SmartBargains.com will actually let you order as late as 12/22 for guaranteed Christmas delivery; some products are marked down as much as 90%

This late in the game, you’ll need great savings to make up for that overnight shipping, right?

For many retailers it’s even too late for that, but most deals are good in stores as well; a trip to the mall is your best bet. (Pro shopping tip: get there as early as you can stand it to reduce your odds of parking garage rage …)

Try this today: Make your list, check it twice, and hurry up! Your shipping and shopping windows are about to close, my friend. And if you order from the first 3 retailers online, I suggest signing up for ebates.com first; you’ll get cash back in addition to the sale. (Coupon stacking, remember? :)

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Reader request: Where are the best places to shop for weekend casual clothes?

By IN How-To Tuesdays

Where to shop for weekend casual clothes

Sara writes: “Is there a fast and best place to shop for Level 1 clothes?  I would love to go into one store, spend an hour, and leave with a new wardrobe.  What do you recommend?”

How-To Tuesdays: Style advice and answers for working momsOh, how I wish there was a store so wonderful you could pick up an entire wardrobe in just an hour. But you might be able to get pretty close.

The first step is to do a little bit of homework. The more you know about yourself, the better you’ll be able to pick a store or stores to shop at–and the easier your shopping will be once you get there.

Level 1 is Weekend Casual, so that means simple, solid wardrobe basics: T-shirts, jeans, sweatshirts, cardigans.

Within this relatively narrow category, however, there are variations. Answering these questions will help match you to the store or stores that best fit.

The best places to shop for weekend casual clothes

  • Style. Do you have an aesthetic preference?
    • If you want to go more young and trendy, think H&M, Madewell or Abercrombie & Fitch.
    • Sticking to the classics? You can’t go wrong with the Gap, Banana Republic or J. Crew.
    • Looking for a looser, comfort silhouette? Think J. Jill or Coldwater Creek.
    • What about something a bit unusual? Anthropologie might be for you.
  • Silhouette. Do you have particular body shape needs: tall, petite, plus size? (Not sure? Take your measurements.)
    • Tall girls: Look for pants that come in “long” in addition to regular at many of the chains mentioned above.
    • Petite: The same goes for you; chains like LOFT and Talbots also have entire Petites sections.
    • Plus: There are several boutiques for the curvy girl; find them here.
  • Spendiness. Do you have a budget?
    • I want to save: Chains like Old Navy and H&M are made for low-cost staples. Or try mass retailers like Kohl’s and Sears; keep an eye out for coupons, both paper and digital.
    • I’m ready to splurge: If you really want to invest in your staples, Banana Republic and J. Crew are at the upper end of the chain-store spectrum, or try the casuals department in your better department stores like Nordstrom.
    • I’m in between. Everything else above will generally fall in between “no money” and “no worries.”

And if you really want to get in and out as quickly as possible, here are my best tips:

  • Make a list. Which Level 1 items do you need the most? In what colors? What sizes?
  • Enlist help. If you’re willing to shop a bit upscale, take advantage of the personal shopper services at the higher end department stores (like the aforementioned Nordstrom). Be prepared to provide the information on your list in advance, including any brands you prefer. When you show up for your appointment, your shopper will have your items ready and waiting.

Good luck!

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Coupon stacking: The secret to saving more online

By IN Try This Thursdays

Coupon stacking and sites like ebates.com are the secret to saving more online

Like you, I love a good deal. I rarely pay full price for clothes. But usually my deal comes from a sale or a coupon code, not both.

Try This Thursdays: A weekly series bringing you something new to try in your working mom style life, like an item to wear or buy, a specific outfit combination to discover in your wardrobe, or even a thing to do.Then I was inducted to the world of coupon stacking, thanks to Adrien of Looks Good From the Back.

As the name implies, it’s a method for using multiple discounts on a single purchase while also leveraging cash-back programs like ebates.com.

Result: I bought shoes on sale at 6pm.com, saving about 40%–and by shopping via ebates.com link, I’m getting a check in the mail as well.

What’s not to like?

Try this today: Read Adrien’s post for tips and techniques and then sign up for ebates. (You’re going to shop at most of these online stores anyway; why not get paid for it? And yes, that’s my affiliate link.)

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Black Friday shopping survival tips

By IN More Fabulous Fridays

More Fabulous Fridays: Wrap up your work week with a working mom style treatThe Biggest Shopping Day of the Year is upon us (and for some stores, it even began on Thanksgiving day itself) … are you ready?

Before you head out the door, get prepped with these tips:

  • Make sure it really is a good deal. Don’t let the excitement of the moment overwhelm you. Before you snatch that item, give the barcode a quick scan with a smartphone app like RedLaser or pull up a site like pricegrabber.com. It’ll tell you how much stores typically charge so you can compare the sale price to them.
  • Track your spending. Trying to keep to a budget? Head out with a max dollar figure in mind, then keep track of what you’ve spent as you go. When you hit your total, it’s time to sit down and enjoy a Cinnabon. (Even better, only take cash in that max budget amount and leave the plastic at home).
  • Take the high road. Frenzied shopping has a way of bringing out the worst in some people. If that lady with the sharp elbows has to have that item, let her. No good price is worth the tension. And spare a kind word for the harried souls behind the cash registers, too.

And don’t forget to stay hydrated:)

Good luck!

Fab mamas: What are your Black Friday shopping survival tips? And don’t forget to report back on your biggest deals of the day today!

Shop your closet to get more wear from your wardrobe

By IN Less Frantic Mondays

This week I want to talk about reuse–getting more wear out of the things you already own. Each day I’ll have a different tip about how to do just that.

Less Frantic Mondays: Tips and tricks for getting dressed and creating working mom outfits with less hassle and more fun.Born during the recession, the concept of “shopping your closet” isn’t just a way of making it more fun to wear your own clothes, it’s also the idea of looking at those clothes with fresh eyes.

If you pretend your closet is a store and you go looking in it for items that work with the season’s trends, you might be surprised by what you find.

Want to take it a step further? Choose a set number of garments–say, 10 or 20 or 30–and make outfits for an entire month out of just those pieces. (You often hear this called “remixing.”)

Talk about necessity being the mother of invention!

Here’s more advice on how to shop your closet from some true reuse pros:

Less Frantic Mondays: Save money at the mall with a shopping plan

By IN Less Frantic Mondays

Less Frantic MondaysCasual browsing at the mall or online can be fun. Goodness knows I love some retail therapy from time to time.

But if you hate mall wandering, or if you’re watching your budget (and who isn’t?), then don’t go shopping without a plan.

Before you ever leave the house or flip open the laptop, figure out

  • what you’re really looking for
  • where you’re going to look
  • how much you’re willing to spend

This little bit of effort up front will save you time, money and hassle in the end.

(Want to know how to put a shopping plan together? Sign up for my email newsletter, The Style List, and you’ll get my free 7-day email course on shopping smarter, including how to make a plan.)