Posts Tagged: swim

How to look sexy in a swimsuit (without wearing a bikini)

By IN Advice

Memorial Day is just around the corner and that can only mean one thing: swimsuit season. This year my family is joining the neighborhood pool, so I’ll be wearing a swimsuit more in one summer than I have in a very long time–and I need to expand my swimwear wardrobe accordingly.

Time to go swimsuit shopping! But what kind to buy? Susan of the Working Closet recently wrote a post on TLC’s Parentables blog in which she explained why she was buying–and wearing–bikinis this year. A mom! In a bikini! Brave woman, I thought. But she made good points about why they were a practical option for her.

So I got inspired; if another mom north of 40 (cough cough) could do it, so could I! And then I tried several on and remembered why I wear one pieces in the first place. I may be in decent shape overall, but there are parts of my abdomen I’m just not interested in sharing with the world. So long, bikini dream.

The important thing, and I think Susan would agree, is to buy and wear swimsuits that make you look good and feel good. And if that translates to a one-piece or a tankini, then ladies, that’s OK.

That doesn’t mean, however, that you must go to the pool or to the beach looking more grandma than Hot Mama. In fact, it’s absolutely possible to look sexy in a swimsuit without wearing a bikini. Here’s how.

5 ways to look great in a swimsuit with coverage

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Swimsuit shopping solved: Tips for the apple (inverted triangle) shape

By IN Advice, Style

Our series on shopping by shape continues. This week: the inverted triangle shape — that is, a body with wide shoulders and slim hips.

Wide-set straps and a little skirt flatter the inverted triangle shape

Wide-set straps and a little skirt flatter the inverted triangle shape

As with the pear shape, the goal is to balance out the body and even the proportions.

In this case, it is the top that is heavier, not the bottom. You are blessed with an ample bosom, ladies; the trick is not to look too top-heavy. In addition, we want to make wide shoulders appear narrower in relation to hips.

  • Balance the bust. In the case of the bustline, first make sure you’re well supported — not just for aesthetics, but also for comfort. look for a well-constructed, built-in bra and a sufficient degree of spandex or other supportive fabric. Avoid busy patterns, ruffles or deep V necklines that will draw unwelcome attention up top.
  • Build up the bottom. Try a little skirt or other embellishments on the bottom part of your suit to give the illusion of wider hips.
  • Shape the shoulders. Skip the halter tops — they’ll only make your shoulders look wider. Instead try a boatneck or wide-set straps.

Ladies, if this is your body type: what suit styles have worked best for you?

Swimsuit shopping solved: 4 tips for the pear shape

By IN Advice, Style

Swimsuit season is here, but never fear, my dears!

Last week, we started with the 5 Secrets of Swimsuit Shopping; secret #1 was to choose the best style for your frame.

LandsEnd Penelope print tankini top

LandsEnd Penelope print tankini top

This week, we begin a series that solves swimsuit shopping by identifying features that work best for a variety of body types. And we start with the so-called “pear shape” or triangle: wider on the bottom than on the top.

 

Following our mantra of accentuating the positive, our goal here is not so much to cover you up, but to balance your overall proportions. So we look for ways to draw attention to the top portion of your body, in order to give it equal weight to your bottom. And we also want to make sure your hips are flattered, too.

Because while no suit can transform you into a supermodel, the right swimwear can go a long way to making your beach body more beautiful.

Here are a few points to look for when shopping for your ideal suit:

  • Draw the eye upwards. Look for decorative necklines, such as halters (if you have wide shoulders) or boat necks (if you have narrow shoulders). Because a pear-shaped woman is often smaller-busted, ruching or other decoration around the upper body can also maximize this feature.
  • Use color. Try a two-toned suit; keep the bottom half a solid, dark color and look for bright patterns and colors on top. The dark colors will recede and look smaller, and the colorful pattern will seem larger and thus more balanced overall.
  • Watch the leg line. A high leg opening is often recommended to lengthen the leg line. But be careful: while your curves may be gorgeous, a high cut leg opening can also be in danger of showing off too much of them. Try a slighly lower cut, or even a flirty swim skirt — as long as that skirted bottom doesn’t make you look even bigger, thus defeating the purpose!
  • Stick to a one-piece or tankini. Unless you’re in Brazil, the bikini is not your friend. So make sure that tankini top overlaps the bottom!

Of course, when trying on any garment, whether swim or not, be sure to take a good look in a 3-way mirror. What may flatter from the front may be less so from the rear.

(And here’s an extra tip: Lands’ End has an entire section of its swimwear catalog for the triangle shape.)

Ladies, if this is your body type: what suit styles have worked best for you?

The 5 S’s of summer dressing

By IN Advice, Style

Astronomers will tell you that summer doesn’t officially begin until the summer solstice on June 21, but I’ve always been happy to consider Memorial Day weekend the kickoff. After a long winter, who doesn’t want summer to start as soon as possible?

But no matter when your summer begins, here are must-have items that will complete any sunny season’s perfect wardrobe — call them the “5 S’s.”

Culotte shorts by Paper, Denim & Cloth

Culotte shorts by Paper, Denim & Cloth

  1. The sundress. After all, it has the word “sun” in its name, n’est-ce pas? Whether maxi-length long or flirtatiously short, a sweet sundress can serve many functions. With a pair of espadrilles and a light-weight cardigan, you’re picnic perfect. With strappy sandals and a wrap, you’re ready to dine al fresco.
  2. Slip-on sandals. No, darlings, I don’t mean flip flops. Not that I don’t love those utilitarian shoes; but if they’re made of rubber, they should only be worn near bodies of water. Instead, find a sandal with the slip-on ease of a flip-flop, but the styling and materials of an actual shoe and it’s much more acceptable with clothing one doesn’t wear for swimming. Try these thong style sandals from Ralph Lauren.
  3. A perfect suit. Ah yes, the elusive quarry. Luckily, there are more styles to choose from than ever before. So though the hunt may be long, rest assured there is a swimsuit for your body type out there. And hurrah for the return of retro ’50s movie-star styles with their tummy-flattering shirring and skirting! Just remember that the silhouettes that suit your body shape for clothing are the same ones to seek out in a swimsuit.
  4. Chic sunglasses. Instantly perk up any outfit — and protect your eyes, too — when you slip on a chic pair of shades. Go Audrey Hepburn in oversize frames, or be James Dean cool in always stylish Ray Bans: whatever style you choose, be sure to try them on first to see what works with your face shape.
  5. A dressy short. You’ve surely got plenty of super casual shorts for camping, hiking, gardening and the like, but they don’t belong on a nice shopping trip or at a patio party. And unless you’re 17 or Jessica Simpson, now is not the time to break out the Daisy Dukes. Slightly longer is friendlier to the shape of your legs; keep to the same length as your skirts. Find a pair in a good quality twill, linen or brushed cotton, and stick to neutral shades or very small prints. Depending on your figure, try a straight-legged Bermuda, or a wider-legged culotte.

With the 5 S’s in your wardrobe, you’re ready for where-ever summer takes you.

What are your summer must-haves?